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Telum Vox Pop: Mother's Day 2025

As we celebrated Mother’s Day on 11 th May, Telum Media spoke to three working mums from Kicker Communications, each at a different stage of motherhood. They shared how their parenting journeys have shaped their careers and the soft skills they've gained through motherhood that are now translating into the workplace.

How has your current stage of motherhood - whether parenting a newborn, a primary school-aged child, or a teenager - influenced your daily work routine, mindset, or broader career goals?

Laura Blue, Business Director
When I re-entered the workforce with my seven-month-old, it was a strange mix of feeling exhausted and energised. I found my role's most straightforward tasks felt twice as hard (thanks to hourly wake-ups!) but at the same time, I enjoyed doing these tasks so much more because my brain was once again being stimulated.

Now that my son is nine months old and his sleep routine is gradually improving, these same tasks are becoming less tiresome, and I've realised how important being cognitively challenged is for my general wellbeing.

This makes me show up better at work and at home. I’ve never felt more motivated in my day-to-day role. As such, becoming a mum has further fuelled my fire to reach my career goals.

Rochelle Cervantes, Associate Director
Having a primary school-aged son has significantly changed and challenged my daily routine. My days now revolve around school runs, extracurricular activities, and everything in between, which has made me more organised and efficient with my time.

I've had to get creative in managing both work and my family, and this has actually improved my multitasking skills! I've become more patient, flexible, and open to finding creative solutions to challenges, both at home and at work. I've also found that I am now much more focused and clear about what is important to me.

Lisa Creffield, Head of Content
When I first had my daughter, managing commuting, working hours and drop off / pick-up from daycare was a big driver in eventually going freelance and WFH. It was manageable, but it was stressful and involved a lot of wasted time. Switching to a flexible work-from-anywhere schedule was ideal.

Having worked as a journalist and TV reporter, I was already used to being in the field / out-of-office, and often working solo on stories, so it was an easy adjustment. Flexibility is vital these days for all workers, not just parents.

One of the interesting things about parenting a teenager is that you do get to hear about the media they're consuming and various social trends, before they get picked up by mainstream media. For anyone working in the media, marketing or communications-related spheres, this can be invaluable.

Motherhood can teach soft skills like negotiation, conflict management, and empathy - skills not always taught in the workplace. What have you learned through parenting that you now find invaluable in your professional life?

Laura Blue

It's always easier to manage work priorities when you have more time available. Before becoming a mum, I had the option of working more or later to get things done on the days when everything happened at once.

This is much harder to do with a baby, so I have learned to be much more deliberate and disciplined with my prioritisation. This has made me a more effective operator (at home and at work) and enables me to extract the maximum value from each hour of the day.

Rochelle Cervantes
My son has truly changed me. I've become a pro at negotiating, whether it's over screen time, having sweets or finding a way to juggle all my work and family priorities. I've also learned how to stay calm and find solutions that work for everyone, even when things get a bit sticky.

Additionally, the patience and resilience I've developed through parenting him have helped me address challenges with a new mindset, enabling me to embrace whatever comes my way with a smile.

Lisa Creffield
I came to parenting in my mid-thirties, so I have already had to develop most workplace skills, although they weren't formally taught then and often aren't now. I think major life events like parenthood and bereavement - which I experienced before having a child, with the premature loss of a parent - do reset your perspective.

Career is no longer "life or death" but it becomes important in a different way. You need to provide for your family, and you also want to set an example to your child of why education and hard work are important, but also about setting boundaries.

I would also note that these qualities aren't unique to parents - some of the best, most supportive managers and empathetic colleagues I've had have not had children themselves.
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Nicole Reaney to head IPREX, Asia Pacific

Global communications group, IPREX, has named Nicole Reaney as its new Asia Pacific President. She succeeds Anu Gupta of APRW in Singapore.

This announcement comes as part of a series of leadership changes to the group's global board, which includes the recent appointments of Heidi Otway as IPREX Global President and David Rudd as Americas Regional President.

Nicole, who is also CEO of InsideOut PR, will continue in her role, adding the IPREX leadership remit to her portfolio.

Nicole said: "I'm thrilled to take on this role and help strengthen APAC region's visibility on a global front." 

The Earned View

The hidden cost of seeing risk everywhere

There is a particular psychological condition that develops in senior communications leaders over time, and nobody talks about it because it looks too much like competence.

It rarely appears in job descriptions or competency frameworks. But it quietly shapes how organisations think, behave, make decisions, as well as how we think about ourselves.

Our profession trains us to anticipate failure. We are taught, often implicitly and through hard experience, to read the room before the room knows it has a temperature. To feel the tremor before the quake. But the organisations we serve still need us to be capable of belief, momentum and possibility, and somewhere in the gap between those two truths, a lot of us have quietly lost our footing.

The competency nobody questions

Modern communications leadership has always revolved around institutional threat interpretation.

  • What if this leaks?

  • What if this offends people?

  • What if activists organise around it?

  • What if the media reframes it in ways we cannot control?

For senior communicators, this kind of thinking is not paranoia. It is a core competence, and in many ways, it has rightly been rewarded as such.

But there is a point at which healthy vigilance begins to distort institutional behaviour in ways that are difficult to see from the inside, because from the inside it still looks like diligence.

 

Spun out

Institutional trust was already eroding before many of us arrived at the table. The scepticism was real, the scrutiny was justified, and the pressure on organisations to protect themselves from an increasingly unforgiving public environment was entirely understandable. But as the Edelman Trust Barometer continues its steady annual decline, I sometimes wonder how much of that erosion we have since built ourselves. Whether the old art of spin has, quietly and over time, spun the web we now find ourselves increasingly caught in.

 

We are what we rehearse

Ultimately, organisations become what they rehearse. And organisations that rehearse fear long enough eventually struggle to distinguish discomfort from danger, criticism from crisis, and the raised eyebrow from the burning building.

I want to be honest here: I don’t have clean answers to this, and I’m not writing from the outside looking in. I have been and continue to be rewarded for exactly this kind of thinking, incentivised to find the risk, name the threat, and walk into rooms as the person who could see what others couldn’t. I understand its seductiveness, because it works. It earns us a seat at the table in a way that few other professional postures do, and that feeling of being genuinely useful to leaders navigating real pressure is one of the main reasons I get up to go to work.

Which is perhaps why it is so difficult to notice when the thing that made us valuable has begun to make us and the organisations we serve, smaller.


 

The case for genuine accountability

When avoiding exposure becomes the primary organisational reflex, accountability starts to erode. Not through any conscious decision to evade responsibility, but because genuine accountability requires a willingness to be clearly and publicly wrong, and clarity has become precisely what these organisations fear most.

What emerges instead is the language of accountability without its substance: acknowledgement without admission, review without consequence, apology without change.

Into that vacuum our profession has enthusiastically poured the concept of authenticity. We have advised organisations to be more human, more genuine, more real. And they have listened, briefed agencies, approved strategies, and published content that performs authenticity with considerable production value while remaining perfectly, carefully, and strategically safe. Which is not authenticity at all. It is its most sophisticated impersonation, and audiences know the difference in their bones even when they struggle to articulate it.

The result is not dramatic scandal. It is something slower and more damaging: campaigns that lose their personality through endless risk management until what remains is technically inoffensive and completely forgettable, public statements nobody inside actually believes and nobody outside actually trusts, and organisations so focused on avoiding negative attention that they have been stripped of the distinctiveness that made them worth paying attention to in the first place.

It doesn’t happen often, and most leaders we work with are genuinely trying to do the right thing in genuinely difficult environments. But we recognise it when it does. Those moments when the organisation is so focused on managing the perception of a decision that the decision itself becomes secondary, and we are brought in to help bridge that gap rather than to challenge it. It is a role that can flatter our craft while quietly diminishing our purpose, and most of us who have been in this profession long enough have felt that tension from the inside.


Us at our best

Our role is not to eliminate risk from institutions. That is impossible, and the pursuit of it is its own kind of damage. Our role is to help organisations navigate uncertainty without becoming psychologically captive to it, and sometimes that means being the person in the room who says that the greater risk is not the one everyone is currently afraid of.

That takes judgement, perspective and the kind of confidence that comes not from certainty, but from experience. And it is, I think, the most valuable thing our profession has to offer when we are at our best.

An organisation that optimises exclusively for reputational safety may well protect itself from backlash.

But it will also, quietly and incrementally, protect itself from relevance.


Matthew (Matt) Thomas is Founder and Chief Catalyst at Stake: The Reputation Company, a Melbourne-based consultancy working across brand, reputation, communications, and public affairs. He has advised some of Australia’s largest private companies and has worked extensively with global organisations localising their storytelling and narratives for Australian audiences. His experience spans consumer, government, health, infrastructure, technology, and corporate reputation, including advisory work at all levels of government in Australia.

Matt’s work sits at the intersection of communications, behaviour change, and institutional strategy. He is also a contributor to the The Oxford Handbook of Social Purpose, writing on reputation, legitimacy, and the growing gap between organisational messaging and operational reality.

Read more from our columnists in The Earned View

Welcome
The Earned View

Welcome to The Earned View

Telum Media is all about creating connections between journalists and PR / comms practitioners. Key to that are the connections we forge with media outlets and newsroom leaders on the ground in each of our markets, and with PR leaders and industry bodies.

Today we launch The Earned View - a curated collection of senior industry figures, sharp operators, and KOLs from across the Middle East and Asia Pacific, who have earned the right to pen regular columns on their chosen areas of expertise.

From Acorn Strategy’s Kate Midttun in Dubai to The Savage Company’s Chris Savage in Australia, Ashbury CommunicationsAdam Harper in Singapore to PRINZ CEO Susanne Martin in New Zealand, each of our 12 columnists will bring a thought-provoking mix of analysis, opinion, and practical advice to Telum Media’s PR News pages.

We kick things off with Matt Thomas, Founder and Chief Catalyst of Stake: The Reputation Company, writing on the hidden cost of risk in his strategic communications and reputation column.