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Telum Talks To: Mother's Day Special

In the spirit of the upcoming Mother’s Day, Telum Media sat down with mother-and-son duo, Yan Lim, CEO and Founder of iOli Communications, and Isaac Lim, Brand, PR & Digital Executive at OSK Property, to explore their shared passion for PR and communications. From childhood memories to professional milestones, they reflect on how they’ve inspired each other over the years and what the world of communications truly means to them.

What brought you to the communications industry? Could you take us back to where it all began? 
Isaac: From a young age, I’ve always followed my mum to the office, even before she set up her own agency. So, naturally, I grew up being very familiar with the office environment, learning about the working world and the communications industry. 

When I first stepped into iOli Communications, it felt particularly special. Our whole family helped set up the space and I watched my mother building the agency from the ground up. Seeing her transition from working in other people’s offices to creating a space of her own where her team could express their creativity and bring ideas to life has instilled a sense of pride in me. 

I began to realise PR and communications might be something I’d want to pursue as well. That sense of purpose that she had, of being the go-to person for others, is something I deeply admire and hope to replicate in my own career. 

What soft skills did you unknowingly pick up from your mum that now help you in your day-to-day PR work? 
Isaac: One soft skill I picked up from my mum is her strong work ethics and professionalism. I’ve always admired the amount of effort she puts into everything she does, whether it’s her job, being a mother, a friend, or any other role she takes on, and I try to model that same level of dedication.  

Another skill I’ve learned is her mannerisms. She always makes a point to say things like “please” and “thank you”. I’ve noticed that people my age sometimes overlook these small courtesies, but when I started applying them myself, I realised how much of a difference they make. Not only do they help me come across as more approachable, but in the world of communications, these gestures are essential for building rapport and trust. 

When you first founded iOli Communications a decade ago, did you anticipate Isaac following your footsteps into the communications field? What is it like sharing a career path with him?
Yan: It’s a bit of both - yes and no. Fundamentally, iOli Communications is a family business. In that sense, there was always a quiet hope that one of the children might one day take over the business. And for that to happen, they’d need to be a communications professional. 

But to be honest, I never imagined Isaac would be the one to follow me into the world of communications. Throughout his childhood and teenage years, he was deeply passionate about the culinary arts. At one point, we were even making plans to send him to Le Cordon Bleu at Sunway, and eventually to France. 

Towards the end of his secondary education, Isaac told me he was interested in pursuing communications. I was surprised, but not entirely. He’s always been great with people and has a natural ability to express himself clearly and thoughtfully.  

But Isaac had something different. He was articulate, confident, observant and showed emotional intelligence; all of which are valuable traits for a communications practitioner. I enrolled him at Taylor’s College, which also kicked off my involvement as guest lecturer there. Today, I serve as the External Industry Assessor of the college and it’s been fulfilling to witness his communications journey unfold.

As a mother and a PR professional, once Isaac decided on this path, I set up my mind to support and guide him but never interfere. 

While we don’t work together directly now, I’ve had the chance to collaborate with him and see his professionalism and work ethic first-hand during his internship at iOli Communications previously. I’ve always been proud of Isaac, but seeing him do well in a field that means so much to me has made me even prouder. 

Do you ever find yourself learning new things from Isaac, even after all these years in PR?
Yan:
There’s a lot I’ve learnt from him. First and foremost, I’ve had to set aside my pride and ego as someone with a more traditional communications background. 

One thing I admire about the younger generation is their confidence in speaking up and voicing their opinions, which is something my generation wasn’t really taught to do. When Isaac was in college, he would often come home and share what he’d learnt from his assignments. Now, he brings home insights and experiences from his job that we might not be able to replicate at iOli Communications due to the smaller scale or budget of our clients. 

One of the key areas I’ve learnt from Isaac over the years is digital marketing and social media activation. At iOli Communications, we’re more experienced in strategic communications and traditional PR, but when it comes to creative social media strategies and KOL engagement, this generation really excels. They’re incredibly savvy and innovative in that space. 

Even though we don’t specialise in digital marketing and social media activations, we do occasionally offer those services to our existing clients. So for example, whenever Isaac shares something new, a trend on TikTok, it refreshes my knowledge and I make a point to keep a lookout for it. Digital knowledge is definitely something I’ve been learning from him and his generation. 

What advice do you find yourself giving Isaac the most - whether as a mother or a PR leader?
I give Isaac all kinds of advice, but one piece that really stands out is the importance of communicating effectively. 

Being in an industry built around communications, it’s essential to have strong communication skills. It doesn’t mean just talking - it’s about truly listening, understanding and expressing your thoughts clearly and in context. And this applies to everything - from how you text someone on WhatsApp, to how you speak with your parents or siblings at home, how you interact with friends at school and eventually, how you communicate at work. 

The other key piece of advice I give him is about attitude. I truly believe that attitude shapes everything. Skills can be taught, but attitude can’t. For example, things like being respectful, humble, eager to learn and curious. In my position as CEO and hiring manager, I often tell Isaac and my team that while it’s great to hire someone who is on the Dean’s List or has obtained straight As, it’s your attitude that will carry you far, no matter what field you’re in. 

I also remind him to build a good reputation - for himself, not for me. As a parent, of course I sometimes worry that my children might feel pressured to live in my shadow, but I always remind them that they can do whatever they want and it’s for their own reputation. 

What does PR or communications mean to you personally? And where do you see yourselves or the industry in the next five years?
Isaac:
To me, PR means being a jack of all trades. You need to understand your clients and vendors deeply, while also managing the more technical aspects. I see PR as a space where I can constantly learn, absorb and apply new knowledge and keep growing. Looking ahead to the next five years, I don’t like setting goals that are too big, materialistic, or overly specific. I’ve learnt that doing so can sometimes create unnecessary pressure. One thing I do consciously, though, is to remind myself not to compare my journey with others; the only person that I should be competing with, is myself. 

So while I may not know exactly where I’ll be or what I’ll be doing in five years, what I do know is this: I want to make a positive impact wherever I am, keep learning as much as I can, and continue becoming a better version of myself each day. 
 
Yan: I truly love my job and the PR industry as a whole and everything that we do. As PR professionals, we take pride in immersing ourselves in our clients' worlds; from technology to healthcare, or any other sector. We study their industries thoroughly so we can be well-equipped to support them effectively. Personally, I’ve also devoted a lot of time to mentoring and nurturing the next generation of practitioners, whether through lectures and workshops at public and private universities, or through daily knowledge-sharing within my team. 

PR is so much more than just managing public perception. People often assume PR is about spinning stories or chasing publicity, but to me, it's the marriage of art and science. It’s how we think strategically, respond to issues, craft narratives and influence behaviours. There's something noble about helping clients tell their stories, protect their reputations, and build lasting value and credibility - it takes vision, empathy, and a lot of hard work. 

Looking ahead over the next five years, one thing remains the most important to me - maintaining a human touch in our work by blending the best of traditional PR with new and innovative strategies. That means keeping personal connections alive, like building strong relationships with journalists through media drops or simply catching up with them over coffee or tea (and donuts!). While platforms like Telum Media make our jobs more efficient and convenient, we must not forget the true essence of PR and comms: authentic, human connection. 

On a personal note, as a mother, I hope Isaac grows into a leader in his own right, no matter where life takes him. I always remind him that leadership isn’t defined by titles like CEO, Account Manager, or Senior Consultant. It’s about inspiring others, taking initiative, and contributing to shared goals. I want him to lead with integrity, curiosity, and, most importantly, with heart. Specifically for Isaac, I hope he finds his unique voice within the PR and communications field and uses it to positively influence those around him. 
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The Earned View

The hidden cost of seeing risk everywhere

There is a particular psychological condition that develops in senior communications leaders over time, and nobody talks about it because it looks too much like competence.

It rarely appears in job descriptions or competency frameworks. But it quietly shapes how organisations think, behave, make decisions, as well as how we think about ourselves.

Our profession trains us to anticipate failure. We are taught, often implicitly and through hard experience, to read the room before the room knows it has a temperature. To feel the tremor before the quake. But the organisations we serve still need us to be capable of belief, momentum and possibility, and somewhere in the gap between those two truths, a lot of us have quietly lost our footing.

The competency nobody questions

Modern communications leadership has always revolved around institutional threat interpretation.

  • What if this leaks?

  • What if this offends people?

  • What if activists organise around it?

  • What if the media reframes it in ways we cannot control?

For senior communicators, this kind of thinking is not paranoia. It is a core competence, and in many ways, it has rightly been rewarded as such.

But there is a point at which healthy vigilance begins to distort institutional behaviour in ways that are difficult to see from the inside, because from the inside it still looks like diligence.

 

Spun out

Institutional trust was already eroding before many of us arrived at the table. The scepticism was real, the scrutiny was justified, and the pressure on organisations to protect themselves from an increasingly unforgiving public environment was entirely understandable. But as the Edelman Trust Barometer continues its steady annual decline, I sometimes wonder how much of that erosion we have since built ourselves. Whether the old art of spin has, quietly and over time, spun the web we now find ourselves increasingly caught in.

 

We are what we rehearse

Ultimately, organisations become what they rehearse. And organisations that rehearse fear long enough eventually struggle to distinguish discomfort from danger, criticism from crisis, and the raised eyebrow from the burning building.

I want to be honest here: I don’t have clean answers to this, and I’m not writing from the outside looking in. I have been and continue to be rewarded for exactly this kind of thinking, incentivised to find the risk, name the threat, and walk into rooms as the person who could see what others couldn’t. I understand its seductiveness, because it works. It earns us a seat at the table in a way that few other professional postures do, and that feeling of being genuinely useful to leaders navigating real pressure is one of the main reasons I get up to go to work.

Which is perhaps why it is so difficult to notice when the thing that made us valuable has begun to make us and the organisations we serve, smaller.


 

The case for genuine accountability

When avoiding exposure becomes the primary organisational reflex, accountability starts to erode. Not through any conscious decision to evade responsibility, but because genuine accountability requires a willingness to be clearly and publicly wrong, and clarity has become precisely what these organisations fear most.

What emerges instead is the language of accountability without its substance: acknowledgement without admission, review without consequence, apology without change.

Into that vacuum our profession has enthusiastically poured the concept of authenticity. We have advised organisations to be more human, more genuine, more real. And they have listened, briefed agencies, approved strategies, and published content that performs authenticity with considerable production value while remaining perfectly, carefully, and strategically safe. Which is not authenticity at all. It is its most sophisticated impersonation, and audiences know the difference in their bones even when they struggle to articulate it.

The result is not dramatic scandal. It is something slower and more damaging: campaigns that lose their personality through endless risk management until what remains is technically inoffensive and completely forgettable, public statements nobody inside actually believes and nobody outside actually trusts, and organisations so focused on avoiding negative attention that they have been stripped of the distinctiveness that made them worth paying attention to in the first place.

It doesn’t happen often, and most leaders we work with are genuinely trying to do the right thing in genuinely difficult environments. But we recognise it when it does. Those moments when the organisation is so focused on managing the perception of a decision that the decision itself becomes secondary, and we are brought in to help bridge that gap rather than to challenge it. It is a role that can flatter our craft while quietly diminishing our purpose, and most of us who have been in this profession long enough have felt that tension from the inside.


Us at our best

Our role is not to eliminate risk from institutions. That is impossible, and the pursuit of it is its own kind of damage. Our role is to help organisations navigate uncertainty without becoming psychologically captive to it, and sometimes that means being the person in the room who says that the greater risk is not the one everyone is currently afraid of.

That takes judgement, perspective and the kind of confidence that comes not from certainty, but from experience. And it is, I think, the most valuable thing our profession has to offer when we are at our best.

An organisation that optimises exclusively for reputational safety may well protect itself from backlash.

But it will also, quietly and incrementally, protect itself from relevance.


Matthew (Matt) Thomas is Founder and Chief Catalyst at Stake: The Reputation Company, a Melbourne-based consultancy working across brand, reputation, communications, and public affairs. He has advised some of Australia’s largest private companies and has worked extensively with global organisations localising their storytelling and narratives for Australian audiences. His experience spans consumer, government, health, infrastructure, technology, and corporate reputation, including advisory work at all levels of government in Australia.

Matt’s work sits at the intersection of communications, behaviour change, and institutional strategy. He is also a contributor to the The Oxford Handbook of Social Purpose, writing on reputation, legitimacy, and the growing gap between organisational messaging and operational reality.

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The Earned View

Welcome to The Earned View

Telum Media is all about creating connections between journalists and PR / comms practitioners. Key to that are the connections we forge with media outlets and newsroom leaders on the ground in each of our markets, and with PR leaders and industry bodies.

Today we launch The Earned View - a curated collection of senior industry figures, sharp operators, and KOLs from across the Middle East and Asia Pacific, who have earned the right to pen regular columns on their chosen areas of expertise.

From Acorn Strategy’s Kate Midttun in Dubai to The Savage Company’s Chris Savage in Australia, Ashbury CommunicationsAdam Harper in Singapore to PRINZ CEO Susanne Martin in New Zealand, each of our 12 columnists will bring a thought-provoking mix of analysis, opinion, and practical advice to Telum Media’s PR News pages.

We kick things off with Matt Thomas, Founder and Chief Catalyst of Stake: The Reputation Company, writing on the hidden cost of risk in his strategic communications and reputation column.